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Offline GALFAMU

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Re: I'm no peeping Tom BUT.....
« Reply #45 on: January 21, 2011, 09:15:47 AM »
Proud of you Cholly. :)

 I hope the mom doesn't hold a grudge and you all can still be good neighbors.

That is so important-especially these days....

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Re: I'm no peeping Tom BUT.....
« Reply #46 on: January 21, 2011, 09:18:07 AM »
good job cholly.  you could have saved that child and her family a lot of embarrassment.  the child is probably not going to stop having sex or sex acts.  i was more concerned about someone videotaping what happened and putting it on the internet.  if your neighbors have security cameras they could have been picked up by accident.

kudos on doing the right thing.
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Re: I'm no peeping Tom BUT.....
« Reply #47 on: January 21, 2011, 09:22:02 AM »
Cholly, You did the right thing and I am glad that your wife supported you.
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Re: I'm no peeping Tom BUT.....
« Reply #48 on: January 21, 2011, 10:10:57 AM »
Would you mind giving an update after your wife stops watching you as you watch that lil young hot tottie teen piece?  "Just saying"

One of my frat bros had a similar incident when he moved into his new townhouse and a new neighbor who was actually looking into his window from their kitchen window (creepy).  Anywhoo the word got out in the neighborhood via the home owners association and now nobody wants to be associated with the neighborhood peeping tom.  Just be careful of the backlash because as crazy as people are these days its best just to mind your own business if it is not in your household.
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Re: I'm no peeping Tom BUT.....
« Reply #49 on: January 21, 2011, 10:27:15 AM »
I think you did the right thing Cholly - and certainly taking Mrs. Cholly with you, Mom could see that both of you have her back - as well as her kids... :nod: :hugs:


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Re: I'm no peeping Tom BUT.....
« Reply #50 on: January 21, 2011, 12:05:39 PM »
You just shot your relationship with that family to hell. You realize that y'all will never be friends now. In my opinion, she was only crying because you brought their family dirt back to her door step. Honestly if my 17 year old did something like that, I'd rather not know. What can I do with the information? Put her in a Chasity belt? At that age, you have missed the opportunity to shape and mold a child on such matters. As someone said earlier, we all did the same thing when we were that age, luckily we did not get caught. You felt up people in cars, behind buildings, and even had sex in some cases. This is all part of growing up, testing the waters, and living and learning. I feel you put yourself in a situation you had no business. I also feel the excuse you used to get your wife involved was  very thin at best. I'm a strong advocate of getting involved, but I know how to pick the battles. You manipulated her to flex your will and also to protect yourself in her eyes if the stuff backfired. Now when the neighbors treat y'all like a leaper she right there with you and you won't feel alone. It was very wrong of you to drag her into this when you knew what her feeling were. Again you manipulated her to get your way.  Shame on you Cholly. You owe her an apology.  If you decided to do this, you should have gone alone. But no, you have now alienated you wife from that family as well. Things will never be the same. The only thing you succeeded in doing was embarrassing that lady.

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Re: I'm no peeping Tom BUT.....
« Reply #51 on: January 21, 2011, 12:15:57 PM »
Oh shut up Cap.....everybody isn't like you. I would want to know. :nod:

You don't need to be ashamed for what you did Cholly.... Don't  screw in my house and I have other children there...

People doing dirt eventually get exposed....Cholly was just the vessel for the exposure just like the prophet Nathan was the vessel to expose David's sin with Bathsheba...good looking out :nod:

You might have done that girl a favor..she might have gotten more and more bold and who knows where she could have ended up


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Re: I'm no peeping Tom BUT.....
« Reply #52 on: January 21, 2011, 12:17:30 PM »
Cap new name Kill Joy :lol:
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Re: I'm no peeping Tom BUT.....
« Reply #53 on: January 21, 2011, 01:12:19 PM »
Cap,

If you think Cholly embarassed her, just think how embarassed she would be if the cops showed up at her door because her white neighbors called them... :nod:


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Re: I'm no peeping Tom BUT.....
« Reply #54 on: January 21, 2011, 01:19:37 PM »
cholly, i will ask for those who don't have the guts.  after watching the boy and girl did you light up a



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Re: I'm no peeping Tom BUT.....
« Reply #55 on: January 21, 2011, 01:38:06 PM »
cholly, i will ask for those who don't have the guts.  after watching the boy and girl did you light up a



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I mean really, did you?  This whole post makes you look like an old a** perv who was probably sitting at his desk looking at porn and decided to go look for the real thing.   :shrug:  just saying.  Maybe some people like to be watched to add a lil spark to their relationship.  Maybe you should try it and then you won't have to worry about looking at others (cough)  *boredsexlife*  :lmao:
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Re: I'm no peeping Tom BUT.....
« Reply #56 on: January 21, 2011, 03:13:09 PM »
Ok, I just threw it out there. You can pick it up if you want to and consider it or you can leave it laying in the floor. But do consider this, thing don't always travel in straight lines.

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Re: I'm no peeping Tom BUT.....
« Reply #57 on: January 21, 2011, 05:05:20 PM »
Cholly, I polled my colleagues, both men and women, on this issue presenting a scenario based on your original story, and to a man/woman, they said that they would do just exactly  what you did.  :nod: :clap: :clap: :clap:

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Re: I'm no peeping Tom BUT.....
« Reply #58 on: January 21, 2011, 07:21:23 PM »
That is because most people are lead by emotions only.

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Re: I'm no peeping Tom BUT.....
« Reply #59 on: January 21, 2011, 07:47:17 PM »
This is all part of growing up, testing the waters, and living and learning.
And what Cholly did was make the situation a teachable moment for their family. 

 

 

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