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Offline DRUMMA1

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What If You Came Home...
« on: January 05, 2011, 02:31:53 PM »
Since we're on the topic of parenting gay children, I thought I'd share this.  Not too long ago, I was listening to the CoCo Brother Show (Christian version of  Michael Baisden) and he shared a letter with his listening audience.  A lady (Black woman) wrote in and said that she came home early from work to find her 16-year old son having sex with his male friend.  She became outraged and dropped her son off at the homeless shelter.  CoCo Brother asked everyone to pray for the lady and he had a lot of people to call into the show to give their opinions on what the lady should do.  A lot of people were saying that she probably would not have kicked him out if she had found her son having sex with a girl.   :shrug:
 
What would you all do in this situation?
« Last Edit: January 05, 2011, 02:44:57 PM by DRUMMA1 »

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Re: What If You Came Home...
« Reply #1 on: January 05, 2011, 03:32:39 PM »
IMO, for the lady to take her son to the homeless shelter and disown him was wrong. Her reaction is probably more so founded on the fact that the son was with another male.
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Re: What If You Came Home...
« Reply #2 on: January 05, 2011, 03:35:42 PM »
Drumma, CoCoBrother used to be on a local radio station here in the A; he's a real cool brother.   :nod:

as for the topic, she probably would not have put her son out if he was found with Boomquisha Bear's [Capler's woman] daughter, but she would probably have still been fussing and carrying on about him fornicating and going to hell.

But there wouldn't have been any dropoffs at the homeless shelter.  :no:

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Re: What If You Came Home...
« Reply #3 on: January 05, 2011, 04:20:49 PM »
Hopefully by the age of 16, I would have already had the sex talk with him. If he were having sex with a girl of course I would talk about pregnancy, protection,.........If it is with another boy, then the conversation would lean more towards his sexual orientation. Do you like boys, girls, or both? If he feels he's gay then i would advise him of all the pit falls associated with being gay; HIV, intolerance,.......  Other than that, what else can a parent do. The shelter is not an option.

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Re: What If You Came Home...
« Reply #4 on: January 05, 2011, 04:22:59 PM »
^^^^Co-signing with the LandLord of the Honeycomb Hideout! :nod:
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Re: What If You Came Home...
« Reply #5 on: January 05, 2011, 10:52:54 PM »
Tell him to use protection and turn the TV up so I couldnt hear.

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Re: What If You Came Home...
« Reply #6 on: January 05, 2011, 11:49:23 PM »
Tell him to use protection and turn the TV up so I couldnt hear.


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Re: What If You Came Home...
« Reply #7 on: January 05, 2011, 11:52:31 PM »
Tell him to use protection and turn the TV up so I couldnt hear.

I would not allow a child of any age to have sex in my house. Why make it easy for them? Responsibility comes with becoming sexually active. You get your own place or pay for a hotel. Shoot,  if a parent allows a child to shack up in their house the child will never move out.  :no:

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Re: What If You Came Home...
« Reply #8 on: January 05, 2011, 11:59:05 PM »
Tell him to use protection and turn the TV up so I couldnt hear.

I would not allow a child of any age to have sex in my house. Why make it easy for them? Responsibility comes with becoming sexually active. You get your own place or pay for a hotel. Shoot,  if a parent allows a child to shack up in their house the child will never move out.  :no:

Nobody is getting pregnant from that...Sex is all apart of growing up.  Rather they do it in my home, than out somewhere dangerous(Like in allies where me and my mates use to shag the little ladies :lol:)
« Last Edit: January 06, 2011, 12:00:45 AM by Neymar »

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Re: What If You Came Home...
« Reply #9 on: January 06, 2011, 12:00:35 AM »
Tell him to use protection and turn the TV up so I couldnt hear.

I would not allow a child of any age to have sex in my house. Why make it easy for them? Responsibility comes with becoming sexually active. You get your own place or pay for a hotel. Shoot,  if a parent allows a child to shack up in their house the child will never move out.  :no:

You're letting him wear a dress, might as well let him screw.   Don't want to hinder the child's development, remember its his roof too. ::)
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Re: What If You Came Home...
« Reply #10 on: January 06, 2011, 09:13:31 AM »
Tell him to use protection and turn the TV up so I couldnt hear.

I would not allow a child of any age to have sex in my house. Why make it easy for them? Responsibility comes with becoming sexually active. You get your own place or pay for a hotel. Shoot,  if a parent allows a child to shack up in their house the child will never move out.  :no:

You're letting him wear a dress, might as well let him screw.   Don't want to hinder the child's development, remember its his roof too. ::)


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Re: What If You Came Home...
« Reply #11 on: January 06, 2011, 10:03:44 AM »
Tell him to use protection and turn the TV up so I couldnt hear.




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Re: What If You Came Home...
« Reply #12 on: January 06, 2011, 10:09:23 AM »
Tell him to use protection and turn the TV up so I couldnt hear.

I would not allow a child of any age to have sex in my house. Why make it easy for them? Responsibility comes with becoming sexually active. You get your own place or pay for a hotel. Shoot,  if a parent allows a child to shack up in their house the child will never move out.  :no:

I agree with you here Cap... :nod:  I've always said that you can't lay up with your sig others over your kids and you certainly don't let your kids lay up with their girl/boy friends over you... :nono2:


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Re: What If You Came Home...
« Reply #13 on: January 06, 2011, 10:11:08 AM »
It is clear young neymar hasn't had to raise a thang...including a pet rabbit.  :shrug:
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Re: What If You Came Home...
« Reply #14 on: January 06, 2011, 12:19:51 PM »
I would be Pissed if He was having sex with anyone while I wasnt home....

Although, I have done so while my parents were not at home... I just didnt get Caught!!! :lmao:

 

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