News: Registration requires "verification" before you are allowed to post.  Be sure to check your "spam" folder to make sure that you receive the verification link.  The e-mail should come from "Onnidan Fan Forum" with the return address -> staff@onnidan.com.


Author Topic: 9 reasons (you may not know) why Christian single ladies can’t find their Boaz,  (Read 767 times)

Offline soflorattler

  • Assistant GM
  • *****
  • Posts: 32,211
    • View Profile
    • The Snake Pit

Offline y04185

  • Assistant GM
  • *****
  • Posts: 64,710
  • Assistant GM
    • View Profile
Fayetteville State by choice. Bronco by the Grace of GOD.

Offline Neymar

  • Assistant GM
  • *****
  • Posts: 11,185
  • Forum Administrator
    • View Profile
"Not ready to be led"

What exactly does that mean? :shrug:

After all women did to finally get equal(in law) to men it seems shortsighted a man would enter a marriage just to lead. She is an adult. They dont need to be led.

mrwiregrass

  • Guest
A lot of them are damaged goods, and need professional help.
« Last Edit: January 13, 2018, 04:16:53 AM by mrwiregrass »

Offline y04185

  • Assistant GM
  • *****
  • Posts: 64,710
  • Assistant GM
    • View Profile
"Not ready to be led"

What exactly does that mean? :shrug:

After all women did to finally get equal(in law) to men it seems shortsighted a man would enter a marriage just to lead. She is an adult. They dont need to be led.

In Islam is the man the head of the household?  If you are the head of the household are you not the leader?  If you are not the leader does that not make you a follower?  If you follow the leader you are being led by the leader.  Which means you are obeying the leader.

Ask your single women friends are they going to have "love, honor, and obey" in their wedding vows.  Also ask them who will be the head of the household.  If they say the man and they won't promise to obey they aren't ready to be married.
Fayetteville State by choice. Bronco by the Grace of GOD.

Offline Maroon and Gray

  • Assistant GM
  • *****
  • Posts: 27,851
  • Head Coach
    • View Profile
"Not ready to be led"

What exactly does that mean? :shrug:

After all women did to finally get equal(in law) to men it seems shortsighted a man would enter a marriage just to lead. She is an adult. They dont need to be led.

In Islam is the man the head of the household?  If you are the head of the household are you not the leader?  If you are not the leader does that not make you a follower?  If you follow the leader you are being led by the leader.  Which means you are obeying the leader.

Ask your single women friends are they going to have "love, honor, and obey" in their wedding vows.  Also ask them who will be the head of the household.  If they say the man and they won't promise to obey they aren't ready to be married.

we can see why you have 3 failed marriages in your resume?


Offline klg14

  • Assistant GM
  • *****
  • Posts: 26,695
  • Assistant Coach
    • View Profile
"Not ready to be led"

What exactly does that mean? :shrug:

After all women did to finally get equal(in law) to men it seems shortsighted a man would enter a marriage just to lead. She is an adult. They dont need to be led.

In Islam is the man the head of the household?  If you are the head of the household are you not the leader?  If you are not the leader does that not make you a follower?  If you follow the leader you are being led by the leader.  Which means you are obeying the leader.

Ask your single women friends are they going to have "love, honor, and obey" in their wedding vows.  Also ask them who will be the head of the household.  If they say the man and they won't promise to obey they aren't ready to be married.

we can see why you have 3 failed marriages in your resume?
Three?!  :o
July 4, 1881 - A Great Day in History...

"Everyone can be great, because everyone can serve."  - Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

“Google can bring you back 100,000 answers, a librarian can bring you back the right one.” - Neil Gaiman

mrwiregrass

  • Guest
"Not ready to be led"

What exactly does that mean? :shrug:

After all women did to finally get equal(in law) to men it seems shortsighted a man would enter a marriage just to lead. She is an adult. They dont need to be led.

In Islam is the man the head of the household?  If you are the head of the household are you not the leader?  If you are not the leader does that not make you a follower?  If you follow the leader you are being led by the leader.  Which means you are obeying the leader.

Ask your single women friends are they going to have "love, honor, and obey" in their wedding vows.  Also ask them who will be the head of the household.  If they say the man and they won't promise to obey they aren't ready to be married.

we can see why you have 3 failed marriages in your resume?

My uncle has been divorced three times. But, he is doing pretty well for himself.

So, what are you saying????

Offline Neymar

  • Assistant GM
  • *****
  • Posts: 11,185
  • Forum Administrator
    • View Profile
A lot of them are damaged goods, and need professional help.


Did you search for, and post in, a 4 year old thread? :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Offline Ivan

  • Assistant GM
  • *****
  • Posts: 8,977
  • Assistant GM
    • View Profile
    • My Facebook Page
Who is the clown who wrote this? ::)
I am now on Facebook! Come check me out...
 http://www.facebook.com/people/Ivan-Guillory/1249473291

SIAC All Sports Champions - 1990, ‘91, ‘92, ‘00, ‘01, ‘02, ‘06, ‘08

Offline y04185

  • Assistant GM
  • *****
  • Posts: 64,710
  • Assistant GM
    • View Profile
Who is the clown who wrote this? ::)

What did he say that wasn't true?
Fayetteville State by choice. Bronco by the Grace of GOD.

Offline Maroon and Gray

  • Assistant GM
  • *****
  • Posts: 27,851
  • Head Coach
    • View Profile
"Not ready to be led"

What exactly does that mean? :shrug:

After all women did to finally get equal(in law) to men it seems shortsighted a man would enter a marriage just to lead. She is an adult. They dont need to be led.

In Islam is the man the head of the household?  If you are the head of the household are you not the leader?  If you are not the leader does that not make you a follower?  If you follow the leader you are being led by the leader.  Which means you are obeying the leader.

Ask your single women friends are they going to have "love, honor, and obey" in their wedding vows.  Also ask them who will be the head of the household.  If they say the man and they won't promise to obey they aren't ready to be married.

we can see why you have 3 failed marriages in your resume?

My uncle has been divorced three times. But, he is doing pretty well for himself.

So, what are you saying????

doing well for yourself can mean many things, but being in a relationship or just relating to other people many not be one of them. I would think several failed marriages is a sign of just that.

Offline Bearforlife

  • Assistant GM
  • *****
  • Posts: 2,067
    • View Profile
My thoughts as a single Christian woman:

1. If churches spent as much time preaching and "preparing" men to be husbands as they do telling single women what they are doing wrong, there would be a lot less single Church people.

2. Being single and a woman is not a disease or condition one needs to be rescued from. It is not some horrible condition that prevents one from enjoying life. Churches need to teach all singles how to enjoy every station of life before moving on to the next.

3. Read the book of Ruth completely. Boaz was older and very wealthy. Boaz gave Ruth (and her mother-in law) EVERYTHING long before they were married. He provided food, shelter, work and protection for Ruth BEFORE they were married and he was considerably older than Ruth. Ruth really had nothing to offer Boaz other than she was hard working and committed to her dead husband's mom. Boaz was a provider without question and most men honestly aren't ready to be that because they would consider a Ruth type a gold digger.

4. While David was considered a man after God's own heart, he was a hoe. He was an adulterer and technically a rapist. Anytime a king wanted a woman, she really had no choice. Especially if he sent her husband off to war knowing he'd be killed JUST so he could "have" her. He was a peeping tom (he spied Bethsheba bathing and did not turn away) and he was prone to other character flaws. Most women really don't want a David.

5. Joseph...lord. Most men ain't a Joseph. Joseph accepted Mary despite her being pregnant prior to them consummating their marriage. He married her anyway and raised a baby he knew wasn't his. Yeah...stand up if you're a Joseph!

6. Again, churches need to prepare ALL potential marriage partners. There are so many women's conferences. If men were being prepared for relationships we could stop spending our money on women's conferences cause it would be a lot less hurt women out here.

I could go on, but you get my point. Being a single woman is not some horrible thing that's an emergency to get out of.

 

2019 Onnidan HBCU Composite Football Schedule

Support Our Efforts

Support our efforts

With all the divisive rhetoric on social media outlets like Facebook and Twitter, websites such as ours, especially message boards, are under the watchful eye of the Internet giants. And those giants are coming down hard on sites like this one due to the perception of the need for better "oversight".

We recognize the cultural conflict that exists and over the past few months we've been accused of allowing content in posts/threads that supposedly violates some advertiser's policies. Those threads weren’t an issue in the past, but for some reason, they are an issue now. And we are being penalized (financially) because of it.

 

As a result we are coming to you directly for your financial support>

 

Please consider supporting our efforts to foster free and open discussion of current issues as they relate to the topics you are interested in. You can use the Cash App and contribute to $onnidan, or process your donation through PayPal below.

=OW= 


 

Onnidan's HBCUSports Logo
News

 

 

Powered by EzPortal