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Title: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: DRUMMA1 on January 05, 2011, 10:20:32 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CGtR5h_jqXo

"Now post THAT on ya wall."   :clap: :bow: :clap:  :bow: :clap: :bow:
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: soflorattler on January 05, 2011, 10:42:06 PM
 ::)  Muck dat. Uncle need his a-- whipped for his pant hanging down around his behind. He can' tell nobody chit, IMO. He should be setting the example for the kid. Ta "L" with that "do as I say, not as I do" bullsmit!
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: DRUMMA1 on January 05, 2011, 10:44:46 PM
::)  Muck dat. Uncle need his a-- whipped for his pant hanging down around his behind. He can' tell nobody chit, IMO. He should be setting the example for the kid. Ta "L" with that "do as I say, not as I do" bullsmit!

Did it ever occur to you that his pants were sagging because he had the belt in his hand?   Lighten up.  :lol:
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: Ivan on January 05, 2011, 11:02:37 PM
Wow, I ain't seen nothin' like that in a while. Kinda reminds me of my uncle and how he used to whip my cousins back in the day.......................sans the pants falling down though. :lol:
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: Neymar on January 05, 2011, 11:08:02 PM
Sad...Kids cant even have fun these days.

Only family I allow on my friends list are my two younger sisters for this very reason...Old people take things too seriously.
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: Que82 on January 05, 2011, 11:41:00 PM
Sad...Kids cant even have fun these days.

Only family I allow on my friends list are my two younger sisters for this very reason...Old people take things too seriously.

You might want to take some things seriously if you plan to get old.   :nono2:



Ain't gonna be no Big Meech or Tookie Williams around uncle.

"But this a-- whoopin aint gon' be fake."    :dedhorse:

Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: Neymar on January 06, 2011, 12:00:00 AM
Sad...Kids cant even have fun these days.

Only family I allow on my friends list are my two younger sisters for this very reason...Old people take things too seriously.

You might want to take some things seriously if you plan to get old.   :nono2:



Ain't gonna be no Big Meech or Tookie Williams around uncle.

"But this a-- whoopin aint gon' be fake."    :dedhorse:



Uncle must be on meds...No way that should have set him off alone :lmao:
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: DRUMMA1 on January 06, 2011, 12:19:07 AM
Uncle must be on meds...No way that should have set him off alone :lmao:

Trust me, if Facebook were around when I was that boy's age and my fam (uncles, older male cousins) saw me posting things contrary to who I was, they would have done the same thing.  Bringing negative attention to "the family name" is a VERY big deal for a lot of people.   :nod:
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: Ramese98 on January 06, 2011, 08:17:50 AM
i would be still toting an arse whopping til this day if FB was around when I was younger, especially putting family business in the streets....
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: MrSoul on January 06, 2011, 09:10:43 AM
some on this board need to have their uncles whoop their behinds, too.

you know who you are so I won't bother naming names.  ;D


Oh yeah, Go, uncle!!!   :nod:
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: FunCkMaster on January 06, 2011, 09:40:00 AM
Sad...Kids cant even have fun these days.

Only family I allow on my friends list are my two younger sisters for this very reason...Old people take things too seriously.

Guess its danged if you do and danged if you don't huh? Mr. "Magna Cum Laude-Smart Guy-I-Know-More-Than-Everyone-on-Onnidan-Put-Together"...

The dude is being an elder/parent and nipping that crap in the bud. But yet, in the same breath, if Uncle Ward was on Facebook "ethuggin' it up with the youngin' ,you would be talking about "how African-American men don't take care of their families.."

Maaaaaaaaaaaan please. :lol: ::)

Unc shoulda had 2 belts..One for his own pants, and the other for tappin' them hindpots like he did..I applaud him :clap: (not really so much for putting it on youtube, because I would not have taken it that far, that would have been an off-camera butt whoopin if it were me).
However, the real sad thing is, when this gets to CNN, the Feds will be after him for 'child abuse"..That wasn't abuse,that was just a decent butt whoopin.. :clap: for a child that needed some correction...

Spare the rod, spoil the child....Too bad more elders don't get at their li'l wanna be fake thugs. Things wouldn't be escalating out of control if they'd jump on that mess early like this dude did...
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: Golden Kitten on January 06, 2011, 10:04:01 AM
Thank God there was no FB when I was growing up - I'm reasonably certain I would have needed to have a fake name and no pics...hell, we could barely talk on the phone... :nod:

Got no problem with the Uncle trying to keep nephew in line - I would tell the Boy all the time that he was not a streetkid and that if he brought the street to me, he could expect to receive it back tenfold. He tried it once, got it back tenfold, and hasn't tried it again - at least not with me.  :nono2:

Nephew will thank Uncle down the road...my neighbor told the police after he knocked out his 14 yr old son who had the audacity to step up to him with what he wasn't going to do applies here - "I'm knocking his @zz out now so you won't have to lock him up later"... :nod:
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: Brother Tony on January 06, 2011, 10:14:59 AM
 :clap:
No problem with the uncle...my pants sag when i half to yank "MY HELP" OUT.
Better for me to do that, than ask for "OW BAIL DONATION"  :shrug:
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: j1908 on January 06, 2011, 10:16:33 AM
Uncle must be on meds...No way that should have set him off alone :lmao:

Trust me, if Facebook were around when I was that boy's age and my fam (uncles, older male cousins) saw me posting things contrary to who I was, they would have done the same thing.  Bringing negative attention to "the family name" is a VERY big deal for a lot of people.   :nod:
Co-sign.
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: Brother Tony on January 06, 2011, 10:20:14 AM
There are several steps i take BEFORE "i yank my help out"  :nod:

Mean Stare
Soft Hell Rasing Voice with Concern
quitness
hell raising voice
glasses fogging mad as hell voice
DEN DA HELP COMES OUT
 :shrug:

...as the late great james brown would say:
you handle yo bag, the way you handle yo bag.
and I'LL DAYUM SHO HANDLE MY BAG, THE WAY I HANDLE MY BAG

HAPPY NEW YEAR!  O0
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: Que82 on January 06, 2011, 10:41:21 AM
Sad...Kids cant even have fun these days.

Only family I allow on my friends list are my two younger sisters for this very reason...Old people take things too seriously.

Guess its danged if you do and danged if you don't huh? Mr. "Magna Cum Laude-Smart Guy-I-Know-More-Than-Everyone-on-Onnidan-Put-Together"...

The dude is being an elder/parent and nipping that crap in the bud. But yet, in the same breath, if Uncle Ward was on Facebook "ethuggin' it up with the youngin' ,you would be talking about "how African-American men don't take care of their families.."

Maaaaaaaaaaaan please. :lol: ::)

Unc shoulda had 2 belts..One for his own pants, and the other for tappin' them hindpots like he did..I applaud him :clap: (not really so much for putting it on youtube, because I would not have taken it that far, that would have been an off-camera butt whoopin if it were me).
However, the real sad thing is, when this gets to CNN, the Feds will be after him for 'child abuse"..That wasn't abuse,that was just a decent butt whoopin.. :clap: for a child that needed some correction...

Spare the rod, spoil the child....Too bad more elders don't get at their li'l wanna be fake thugs. Things wouldn't be escalating out of control if they'd jump on that mess early like this dude did...

That wasn't child abuse.  :no: What I got was child abuse, extension cords, shoes, tree limbs, 2 by fours, fence posts, etc, and that was Momma.  I acted a fool in a store once and she borrowed a man's belt to cut my tail. :lol: 

What I didn't appreciate was how he cursed the child out :shrug:. 
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: Neymar on January 06, 2011, 10:48:46 AM
Sad...Kids cant even have fun these days.

Only family I allow on my friends list are my two younger sisters for this very reason...Old people take things too seriously.

Guess its danged if you do and danged if you don't huh? Mr. "Magna Cum Laude-Smart Guy-I-Know-More-Than-Everyone-on-Onnidan-Put-Together"...

The dude is being an elder/parent and nipping that crap in the bud. But yet, in the same breath, if Uncle Ward was on Facebook "ethuggin' it up with the youngin' ,you would be talking about "how African-American men don't take care of their families.."

Maaaaaaaaaaaan please. :lol: ::)

Unc shoulda had 2 belts..One for his own pants, and the other for tappin' them hindpots like he did..I applaud him :clap: (not really so much for putting it on youtube, because I would not have taken it that far, that would have been an off-camera butt whoopin if it were me).
However, the real sad thing is, when this gets to CNN, the Feds will be after him for 'child abuse"..That wasn't abuse,that was just a decent butt whoopin.. :clap: for a child that needed some correction...

Spare the rod, spoil the child....Too bad more elders don't get at their li'l wanna be fake thugs. Things wouldn't be escalating out of control if they'd jump on that mess early like this dude did...

Ethugging is not an a-- whooping offense, especially if nobody got hurt. I dont see how this isnt child abuse either. What is a kid learning by beating them? How is that teaching them how to think? They dont learn how to properly separate right from wrong with that. All they learn is they better not do some things around some people. When they grow up, and realize nobody can beat them anymore, they go right back to doing the same thing.

Beatings were used to keep Slaves in their place, not raise healthy children...remember that man.
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: y04185 on January 06, 2011, 11:03:54 AM
Sad...Kids cant even have fun these days.

Only family I allow on my friends list are my two younger sisters for this very reason...Old people take things too seriously.

Guess its danged if you do and danged if you don't huh? Mr. "Magna Cum Laude-Smart Guy-I-Know-More-Than-Everyone-on-Onnidan-Put-Together"...

The dude is being an elder/parent and nipping that crap in the bud. But yet, in the same breath, if Uncle Ward was on Facebook "ethuggin' it up with the youngin' ,you would be talking about "how African-American men don't take care of their families.."

Maaaaaaaaaaaan please. :lol: ::)

Unc shoulda had 2 belts..One for his own pants, and the other for tappin' them hindpots like he did..I applaud him :clap: (not really so much for putting it on youtube, because I would not have taken it that far, that would have been an off-camera butt whoopin if it were me).
However, the real sad thing is, when this gets to CNN, the Feds will be after him for 'child abuse"..That wasn't abuse,that was just a decent butt whoopin.. :clap: for a child that needed some correction...

Spare the rod, spoil the child....Too bad more elders don't get at their li'l wanna be fake thugs. Things wouldn't be escalating out of control if they'd jump on that mess early like this dude did...

That wasn't child abuse.  :no: What I got was child abuse, extension cords, shoes, tree limbs, 2 by fours, fence posts, etc, and that was Momma.  I acted a fool in a store once and she borrowed a man's belt to cut my tail. :lol: 

What I didn't appreciate was how he cursed the child out :shrug:. 

all those beatings, tree cuttings, and combat boots and you still turned out bad.   :lol:

have y'all beat your kids today.
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: Brother Tony on January 06, 2011, 11:07:38 AM
I GOT A FEELING MY 2 DON'T WANT TO MESS WITH "DA PREACHER UNCLE"  :lol:
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: SIUspectator on January 06, 2011, 11:21:58 AM
Wow!  It's good that the uncle addressed it :clap: but the kid looks like he is getting too old for belts.
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: Que82 on January 06, 2011, 11:31:25 AM
Sad...Kids cant even have fun these days.

Only family I allow on my friends list are my two younger sisters for this very reason...Old people take things too seriously.

Guess its danged if you do and danged if you don't huh? Mr. "Magna Cum Laude-Smart Guy-I-Know-More-Than-Everyone-on-Onnidan-Put-Together"...

The dude is being an elder/parent and nipping that crap in the bud. But yet, in the same breath, if Uncle Ward was on Facebook "ethuggin' it up with the youngin' ,you would be talking about "how African-American men don't take care of their families.."

Maaaaaaaaaaaan please. :lol: ::)

Unc shoulda had 2 belts..One for his own pants, and the other for tappin' them hindpots like he did..I applaud him :clap: (not really so much for putting it on youtube, because I would not have taken it that far, that would have been an off-camera butt whoopin if it were me).
However, the real sad thing is, when this gets to CNN, the Feds will be after him for 'child abuse"..That wasn't abuse,that was just a decent butt whoopin.. :clap: for a child that needed some correction...

Spare the rod, spoil the child....Too bad more elders don't get at their li'l wanna be fake thugs. Things wouldn't be escalating out of control if they'd jump on that mess early like this dude did...

Ethugging is not an a-- whooping offense, especially if nobody got hurt. I dont see how this isnt child abuse either. What is a kid learning by beating them? How is that teaching them how to think? They dont learn how to properly separate right from wrong with that. All they learn is they better not do some things around some people. When they grow up, and realize nobody can beat them anymore, they go right back to doing the same thing.

Beatings were used to keep Slaves in their place, not raise healthy children...remember that man.

 :no:  Well I guess you were never disciplined and readers can see how that turned out.  You are disrepectful of everything and everybody.  If that ain't a poster supporting a good ole tail cutting then I don't know what is. :shrug:
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: Golden Kitten on January 06, 2011, 12:23:13 PM
You forgot the willow switch 82... :nod: :lol:

Quote
i would be still toting an arse whopping til this day if FB was around when I was younger, especially putting family business in the streets....

Y'all would be prying my folks hands from around my neck and stitching my tongue back into my mouth...
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: FunCkMaster on January 06, 2011, 12:38:17 PM
Sad...Kids cant even have fun these days.

Only family I allow on my friends list are my two younger sisters for this very reason...Old people take things too seriously.

Guess its danged if you do and danged if you don't huh? Mr. "Magna Cum Laude-Smart Guy-I-Know-More-Than-Everyone-on-Onnidan-Put-Together"...

The dude is being an elder/parent and nipping that crap in the bud. But yet, in the same breath, if Uncle Ward was on Facebook "ethuggin' it up with the youngin' ,you would be talking about "how African-American men don't take care of their families.."

Maaaaaaaaaaaan please. :lol: ::)

Unc shoulda had 2 belts..One for his own pants, and the other for tappin' them hindpots like he did..I applaud him :clap: (not really so much for putting it on youtube, because I would not have taken it that far, that would have been an off-camera butt whoopin if it were me).
However, the real sad thing is, when this gets to CNN, the Feds will be after him for 'child abuse"..That wasn't abuse,that was just a decent butt whoopin.. :clap: for a child that needed some correction...

Spare the rod, spoil the child....Too bad more elders don't get at their li'l wanna be fake thugs. Things wouldn't be escalating out of control if they'd jump on that mess early like this dude did...

Ethugging is not an a-- whooping offense, especially if nobody got hurt. I dont see how this isnt child abuse either. What is a kid learning by beating them? How is that teaching them how to think? They dont learn how to properly separate right from wrong with that. All they learn is they better not do some things around some people. When they grow up, and realize nobody can beat them anymore, they go right back to doing the same thing.

Beatings were used to keep Slaves in their place, not raise healthy children...remember that man.

Dude, I know good and darned well what happened to slaves. And they were ABUSED.... The Master didn't take a belt, and give them 10-20 quick ones with clothes on their backs. He normally stripped them down, took a whip 4 times longer than belt, and swung until they were tired of swinging.

I have used corporal punishment on my kid 3 times in her life. The last time I had to do it, she was 9 (almost 8 yrs. ago). You wanna know why  that was the last time? Because she LEARNED, quickly, that's why. And up to this day, she thanks me for caring enough to show her consequences and repercucssions of bad actions and things that look like "fun" that could turn into bad endings...

She ain't perfect, but she is a beautiful, respectful,  honor-roll 2-sport student athlete who is proud to be a non-fast-tail chickenhead (like too many of our young ladies are these days, the kind that your wanna-be-sly-hindpots would try to take advantage of but would fail miserably), and does not put up with all of the drama that teen girls love to bring, and the okey doke garbage these teen boys try to bring her..Why? Because dad and mom put her down to the game, and did not/do not play when it comes to doling out  punishment. And she (as well as her friends) think me and her mom are THE coolest parents around. And they KNOW we don't play that...They like the fact that we keep it 100, and actually are  friendly toward them and our child, but we draw the line often and EARLY...feel me?

So, when YOU have kids, put them in time out, shake your finger and beg and plead to them to stop doing whatever it is they are doing, ethug it up with them etc., do what you have to do. As for me and my house..Well, I have already stated it, man. And thanks for the attempt at an American history lesson that I already knew.. :nod:
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: Neymar on January 06, 2011, 12:58:31 PM
Sad...Kids cant even have fun these days.

Only family I allow on my friends list are my two younger sisters for this very reason...Old people take things too seriously.

Guess its danged if you do and danged if you don't huh? Mr. "Magna Cum Laude-Smart Guy-I-Know-More-Than-Everyone-on-Onnidan-Put-Together"...

The dude is being an elder/parent and nipping that crap in the bud. But yet, in the same breath, if Uncle Ward was on Facebook "ethuggin' it up with the youngin' ,you would be talking about "how African-American men don't take care of their families.."

Maaaaaaaaaaaan please. :lol: ::)

Unc shoulda had 2 belts..One for his own pants, and the other for tappin' them hindpots like he did..I applaud him :clap: (not really so much for putting it on youtube, because I would not have taken it that far, that would have been an off-camera butt whoopin if it were me).
However, the real sad thing is, when this gets to CNN, the Feds will be after him for 'child abuse"..That wasn't abuse,that was just a decent butt whoopin.. :clap: for a child that needed some correction...

Spare the rod, spoil the child....Too bad more elders don't get at their li'l wanna be fake thugs. Things wouldn't be escalating out of control if they'd jump on that mess early like this dude did...

Ethugging is not an a-- whooping offense, especially if nobody got hurt. I dont see how this isnt child abuse either. What is a kid learning by beating them? How is that teaching them how to think? They dont learn how to properly separate right from wrong with that. All they learn is they better not do some things around some people. When they grow up, and realize nobody can beat them anymore, they go right back to doing the same thing.

Beatings were used to keep Slaves in their place, not raise healthy children...remember that man.

Dude, I know good and darned well what happened to slaves. And they were ABUSED.... The Master didn't take a belt, and give them 10-20 quick ones with clothes on their backs. He normally stripped them down, took a whip 4 times longer than belt, and swung until they were tired of swinging.

I have used corporal punishment on my kid 3 times in her life. The last time I had to do it, she was 9 (almost 8 yrs. ago). You wanna know why  that was the last time? Because she LEARNED, quickly, that's why. And up to this day, she thanks me for caring enough to show her consequences and repercucssions of bad actions and things that look like "fun" that could turn into bad endings...

She ain't perfect, but she is a beautiful, respectful,  honor-roll 2-sport student athlete who is proud to be a non-fast-tail chickenhead (like too many of our young ladies are these days, the kind that your wanna-be-sly-hindpots would try to take advantage of but would fail miserably), and does not put up with all of the drama that teen girls love to bring, and the okey doke garbage these teen boys try to bring her..Why? Because dad and mom put her down to the game, and did not/do not play when it comes to doling out  punishment. And she (as well as her friends) think me and her mom are THE coolest parents around. And they KNOW we don't play that...They like the fact that we keep it 100, and actually are  friendly toward them and our child, but we draw the line often and EARLY...feel me?

So, when YOU have kids, put them in time out, shake your finger and beg and plead to them to stop doing whatever it is they are doing, ethug it up with them etc., do what you have to do. As for me and my house..Well, I have already stated it, man. And thanks for the attempt at an American history lesson that I already knew.. :nod:

I bet your daughter turned out well due to having two parents...not for being beaten.

Our jaisl are full of men and women who were beat as kids...the difference is the father
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: FunCkMaster on January 06, 2011, 01:04:49 PM
Our daughter is a good person because:

A)We are blessed by God
B)Having 2 nurturing, caring parents in the home (you are correct)...
C)Having set limits and boundaries. The corporal punishment is just one part of the nurturing and limits/boundaries that hasn't had to be implemented in quite some time.

Prisons are full of folks who were corporally punished. Yep. And also full of those who got over like fat rats....Same with any walk of life...
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: EL JAY on January 06, 2011, 02:19:42 PM
He said...."you better not say happy birthday"...............

Then he did the old school set up..."Now put that on your wall"

Now technically...if he follows his uncle's last instruction he is gonna get another beat down..lol

I KNOOOOOOOW my son Jamel is going to see this tooooo night...just a little reality for his little a--...

Back in the day it was legal for your uncle to punch you....lolI thought for sure he was going to put hands on him next to the door...bringing back an old memory...lol
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: DRUMMA1 on January 06, 2011, 02:25:38 PM
The main thing about this video that brings back memories for me is that phone tone you can hear in the background towards the end.  :lol:  Everytime I got whooped, I always heard that dial tone because my mom "went in", while knocking everything over in the house.  :lol:
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: Que82 on January 06, 2011, 02:40:59 PM
Neymar, what you don't understand is was not the whooping that maintained controlled.  Once you got a good one it was the threat of one. 

I count the times I whipped both of my kids on one hand.  But they knew the "tail whoopin is coming look" and that was enough to stop bad behavior. 

I thank God my parents disciplined me or I would have been in jail or in the grave.  I was very hot headed and quick to fight until one day when my Mom cut my thought I was grown tail in the principle's office for fighting in high school.  Like the kid in the video, the only thing really hurt was my pride, but I behaved correctly because I never wanted to get embarrassed like that again. 

I don't believe you should abuse a child but I personally feel if a kid is allowed to do their own thing as you and some others seem to believe you have stuff like this. 

(http://www.gifsoup.com/view/76641/slap-o.gif)

I would have gnawed my arm off before I raised it toward my Mom and that was even in my forties before she passed.
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: DRUMMA1 on January 06, 2011, 02:44:43 PM
(http://www.gifsoup.com/view/76641/slap-o.gif)

 :o  :no:  :crazy:  >:(  :dedhorse:
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: RedBuddha on January 06, 2011, 03:12:41 PM
That look on her face was classic, shocked & surprised. Then my mom would have gone to Anger, and I would've woke up on the floor some time the next morning. Cold & confused.
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: DRUMMA1 on January 06, 2011, 03:18:54 PM
and I would've woke up on the floor some time the next morning. Cold & confused.

At least you would have woken up.  I wouldn't have even had a funeral.  I would have been cremated on site.   :no:  I'm not saying that to be funny.  My mom would have lost it had me or my brothers even lifted a hand in her direction.   :tiptoe:
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: Golden Kitten on January 06, 2011, 04:18:38 PM
(http://www.gifsoup.com/view/76641/slap-o.gif)

 :o  :no:  :crazy:  >:(  :dedhorse:

Baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaybeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee...

As old as I am, even now, what my parents say is STILL the law. I'm blessed that they are both still living and I've always tried to keep the 4th commandment. Had I suddenly lost my mind and even acted like I remotely thot I wanted to contemplate saying something, much less acting like I was going to raise my pinkie (much less hand) to either, I'm certain I would currently be residing in the O'Neal Cemetery in Tunica County, MS... :nod: :nod:
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: DRUMMA1 on January 06, 2011, 04:33:14 PM
(http://www.gifsoup.com/view/76641/slap-o.gif)

 :o  :no:  :crazy:  >:(  :dedhorse:

Baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaybeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee...

As old as I am, even now, what my parents say is STILL the law. I'm blessed that they are both still living and I've always tried to keep the 4th commandment. Had I suddenly lost my mind and even acted like I remotely thot I wanted to contemplate saying something, much less acting like I was going to raise my pinkie (much less hand) to either, I'm certain I would currently be residing in the O'Neal Cemetery in Tunica County, MS... :nod: :nod:

 :lmao:
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: Pmist on January 07, 2011, 07:34:30 AM

Baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaybeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee...

As old as I am, even now, what my parents say is STILL the law. I'm blessed that they are both still living and I've always tried to keep the 4th commandment. Had I suddenly lost my mind and even acted like I remotely thot I wanted to contemplate saying something, much less acting like I was going to raise my pinkie (much less hand) to either, I'm certain I would currently be residing in the O'Neal Cemetery in Tunica County, MS... :nod: :nod:

I know that is right! Mama Wildcat can still cause me to jump with a look even to this day.

In short, you do what works for your child.  Im  glad uncle stepped to the plate. :nod: The thing is will it help change the boy's ways? If it is effective then by all means as long as he is not doing damage, I say go for it. :nod:
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: Neymar on January 07, 2011, 10:38:42 AM
Neymar, what you don't understand is was not the whooping that maintained controlled.  Once you got a good one it was the threat of one. 

I count the times I whipped both of my kids on one hand.  But they knew the "tail whoopin is coming look" and that was enough to stop bad behavior. 

I thank God my parents disciplined me or I would have been in jail or in the grave.  I was very hot headed and quick to fight until one day when my Mom cut my thought I was grown tail in the principle's office for fighting in high school.  Like the kid in the video, the only thing really hurt was my pride, but I behaved correctly because I never wanted to get embarrassed like that again. 

I don't believe you should abuse a child but I personally feel if a kid is allowed to do their own thing as you and some others seem to believe you have stuff like this. 

(http://www.gifsoup.com/view/76641/slap-o.gif)

I would have gnawed my arm off before I raised it toward my Mom and that was even in my forties before she passed.

That kid had no father at home, and if you watched the episode he hit her because she does the same to him.

You arent learning anything from the whooping though except that right and wrong is pain that I experience from my parents. Once you are too old for whoopings, you are back at square one.

I was never beat by any of my parents. I am not going to sit here and say I was a wonderful child with only timeouts and the like. I did AWFUL things as a kid, but I lived through it. I learned the true difference between right and wrong because I had to live with the mistakes I made, and I grew from it more than just not doing the wrong things because I was afraid of being beat up by my guardians. Those bad experiences, and living through them, made me into a thinker. I now dont do things because I can separate what is morally right or wrong based on my contemporary standards.

As a black man I am terribly lucky that I was raised in an environment that did not stifle my growth. My mom, like our presidents, saw the inherent power in the black man. She saw what could be achieved if you let them develop and grow like any other kid, and how important it was not to crush our spirit. So many black kids in this country dont have that opportunity. Now I know you are going to roll your eyes at this, but I still have to say it because it is what I see. My heart ACHES when I ride Marta, or travel around Atlanta and see the way black American women treat their black male kids. They make the littlest mistake, slow them down just a little, act like a kid and play around while waiting for a bus...ect, ect and they CRUSH them. They yell, hit them, have tantrums and the like. They literally kill the spirit of those kids, and you know what that produces? it produces kids who hate themselves, and people who look like them. That directly contributes to black on black violence, shucks along with circumstances I say it produces it.
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: aggiegrad2009 on January 07, 2011, 11:13:50 AM
I called my mom last night about this and all she could do was laugh :lol:....

My parents' famous words after a spanking "SHUT UP BEFORE I GIVE YOU SOMETHING TO CRY FOR" LOL and then they would always say I do this because I LOVE you and one day you will understand and be thankful for all of this.... THEY DID NOT LIE............ :clap:

I tried my mom one time not by raising a hand but the bass in my voice went up higher than she liked and something fooled me to stand up over her while doing it MAN..............That lady jumped on me like a total stranger and tore me a new one and dang near broke half the stuff in my room. She was PISSED moreso disappointed that I would even come at her sideways like that... My dad came running out the room wondering what was wrong, mom was like nothing, this fool done lost his mind and I'm just helping him find it.....We had no more problems after that, we're the best of friends now LOL
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: Valley Girl on January 07, 2011, 11:14:22 AM
He said...."you better not say happy birthday"...............


He didn't just say that, That man said you better not even say happy birthday to God  :lmao:

His pants were hanging down because he was using the belt to whip his nephew...and even if they were hanging down he is at his house....you can do what you want to at your own house...heck you can walk around buck naked at your own house if you want to....

I wouldn't even tell my parents No, do you think I would actually hit them?  

My niece started living with my mama when she was 4 years old.....when that chick got 12 or 13 she did something and my mama popped her....that chick actually said to my mama "stop"  :o :o

I woke up and heard furniture literally moving....I came downstairs and my mama was giving that child the business :no: My mama is 5'1 and my neice was at least 5'3 5'4 at the time...

Fast forward to later on in the day...my niece had a thoroughly whipped behind...when the mood struck her, my mama would just out of nowhere look at my niece and say "don't you ever tell me to stop again".....we were in the car talking about something totally different, my mama would say, "and girl don't you ever tell me stop again"....we were at a restaurant talking about another subject, my mama said "and girl don't you ever tell me stop again, do you hear me"?  The next day, she was on the way to school, and my mama said "I can't believe you told me to stop...are you crazy?"...I was like mama, she gets it... let it go  :lmao:
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: Pmist on January 07, 2011, 03:31:05 PM
Mama Wildcat is guilty of that one as well. She will hold on to something and replay it over and over again,  thus increasing your chances for getting jacked up multiple times for one offense. :lol:
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: j1908 on January 07, 2011, 04:46:00 PM
OMG, I just heard the audio I'm on the FLO :lmao: Tell em it's fake, it's fake dang, but this a-- whooping not going to be OMG :lmao: :lmao:
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: DRUMMA1 on January 07, 2011, 05:29:09 PM
OMG, I just heard the audio I'm on the FLO :lmao: Tell em it's fake, it's fake dang, but this a-- whooping not going to be OMG :lmao: :lmao:

That little boy was petrified.  :lol:

Uncle:  "The Ward family don't come from that sh*t!"

Nephew: "The Ward family don't come from that bull stuff."  :lol: 
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: Valley Girl on January 07, 2011, 05:35:20 PM


 My dad came running out the room wondering what was wrong, mom was like nothing, this fool done lost his mind and I'm just helping him find it.....


Alright mama :lol:
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: Que82 on January 07, 2011, 08:25:01 PM
Dang Youtube done pulled da plug.  :shrug: I knew I should have downloaded it.  My sister and I were on the phone laughing about it on the phone for 30 minutes.  :lol:
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: DRUMMA1 on January 07, 2011, 08:40:18 PM
Dang Youtube done pulled da plug.  :shrug: I knew I should have downloaded it.  My sister and I were on the phone laughing about it on the phone for 30 minutes.  :lol:

I downloaded it so let me know if you want it.

Sidenote:  Its messed up that YouTube has been pulling that video yet keep THOUSANDS of videos like this up:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g8v8E7ZSlhU


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TFkF-choqPU
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: Que82 on January 07, 2011, 08:45:55 PM
Got it and downloaded lol

http://missjia.com/video-uncle-beats-nephews-faking-gangsta-facebook.html
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: soflorattler on January 08, 2011, 07:16:51 AM
[quote author=Neymar link=topic=47162.msg332004#msg332004
I bet your daughter turned out well due to having two parents...not for being beaten.

Our jaisl are full of men and women who were beat as kids...the difference is the father
[/quote]

Not necessarily. Just having 2 parents in the home isn't the end of it. There are too many incarcerated who had/have two parents in the home.

In contrast, there many single parent homes who's kids have turned better than kids raised in two parent homes.

So, to make that broad brush assumption that kids raised in two parent home are the only ones that turn out fine, is erroneous at best...
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: y04185 on January 08, 2011, 08:22:30 AM
Neymar, what you don't understand is was not the whooping that maintained controlled.  Once you got a good one it was the threat of one. 

I count the times I whipped both of my kids on one hand.  But they knew the "tail whoopin is coming look" and that was enough to stop bad behavior. 

I thank God my parents disciplined me or I would have been in jail or in the grave.  I was very hot headed and quick to fight until one day when my Mom cut my thought I was grown tail in the principle's office for fighting in high school.  Like the kid in the video, the only thing really hurt was my pride, but I behaved correctly because I never wanted to get embarrassed like that again. 

I don't believe you should abuse a child but I personally feel if a kid is allowed to do their own thing as you and some others seem to believe you have stuff like this. 

(http://www.gifsoup.com/view/76641/slap-o.gif)

I would have gnawed my arm off before I raised it toward my Mom and that was even in my forties before she passed.

That kid had no father at home, and if you watched the episode he hit her because she does the same to him.

You arent learning anything from the whooping though except that right and wrong is pain that I experience from my parents. Once you are too old for whoopings, you are back at square one.

I was never beat by any of my parents. I am not going to sit here and say I was a wonderful child with only timeouts and the like. I did AWFUL things as a kid, but I lived through it. I learned the true difference between right and wrong because I had to live with the mistakes I made, and I grew from it more than just not doing the wrong things because I was afraid of being beat up by my guardians. Those bad experiences, and living through them, made me into a thinker. I now dont do things because I can separate what is morally right or wrong based on my contemporary standards.

As a black man I am terribly lucky that I was raised in an environment that did not stifle my growth. My mom, like our presidents, saw the inherent power in the black man. She saw what could be achieved if you let them develop and grow like any other kid, and how important it was not to crush our spirit. So many black kids in this country dont have that opportunity. Now I know you are going to roll your eyes at this, but I still have to say it because it is what I see. My heart ACHES when I ride Marta, or travel around Atlanta and see the way black American women treat their black male kids. They make the littlest mistake, slow them down just a little, act like a kid and play around while waiting for a bus...ect, ect and they CRUSH them. They yell, hit them, have tantrums and the like. They literally kill the spirit of those kids, and you know what that produces? it produces kids who hate themselves, and people who look like them. That directly contributes to black on black violence, shucks along with circumstances I say it produces it.

the mother was not beating the kid.  that was the problem. 

mommy y had the nerve to tell me one time 'don't take this a**  whooping personally.'  when i finished laughing she performed her duty.
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: Neymar on January 08, 2011, 10:04:02 AM
Neymar, what you don't understand is was not the whooping that maintained controlled.  Once you got a good one it was the threat of one. 

I count the times I whipped both of my kids on one hand.  But they knew the "tail whoopin is coming look" and that was enough to stop bad behavior. 

I thank God my parents disciplined me or I would have been in jail or in the grave.  I was very hot headed and quick to fight until one day when my Mom cut my thought I was grown tail in the principle's office for fighting in high school.  Like the kid in the video, the only thing really hurt was my pride, but I behaved correctly because I never wanted to get embarrassed like that again. 

I don't believe you should abuse a child but I personally feel if a kid is allowed to do their own thing as you and some others seem to believe you have stuff like this. 

(http://www.gifsoup.com/view/76641/slap-o.gif)

I would have gnawed my arm off before I raised it toward my Mom and that was even in my forties before she passed.

That kid had no father at home, and if you watched the episode he hit her because she does the same to him.

You arent learning anything from the whooping though except that right and wrong is pain that I experience from my parents. Once you are too old for whoopings, you are back at square one.

I was never beat by any of my parents. I am not going to sit here and say I was a wonderful child with only timeouts and the like. I did AWFUL things as a kid, but I lived through it. I learned the true difference between right and wrong because I had to live with the mistakes I made, and I grew from it more than just not doing the wrong things because I was afraid of being beat up by my guardians. Those bad experiences, and living through them, made me into a thinker. I now dont do things because I can separate what is morally right or wrong based on my contemporary standards.

As a black man I am terribly lucky that I was raised in an environment that did not stifle my growth. My mom, like our presidents, saw the inherent power in the black man. She saw what could be achieved if you let them develop and grow like any other kid, and how important it was not to crush our spirit. So many black kids in this country dont have that opportunity. Now I know you are going to roll your eyes at this, but I still have to say it because it is what I see. My heart ACHES when I ride Marta, or travel around Atlanta and see the way black American women treat their black male kids. They make the littlest mistake, slow them down just a little, act like a kid and play around while waiting for a bus...ect, ect and they CRUSH them. They yell, hit them, have tantrums and the like. They literally kill the spirit of those kids, and you know what that produces? it produces kids who hate themselves, and people who look like them. That directly contributes to black on black violence, shucks along with circumstances I say it produces it.

the mother was not beating the kid.  that was the problem. 

mommy y had the nerve to tell me one time 'don't take this a**  whooping personally.'  when i finished laughing she performed her duty.

Yeah she was.

He even said "how does that feel for a change" when he hit her. She hit him, and thats how he learned how to solve the problem.

I really cant understand some films like Tyler Perry. He makes jokes about kids being beat, but its bad when a wife is beat. If the man is the ruler of the "Christian" house, and you already accept its ok to hit, then why is it bad in his films when a man beats his wife?
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: Que82 on January 08, 2011, 11:11:10 AM
Well Neymar, one thing is  for sure.  If you really are what you have presented in the short time you've been on this board and I was your parent, I would have whooped your a-- into the witness protection program.  :nod:
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: Neymar on January 08, 2011, 11:19:18 AM
Well Neymar, one thing is  for sure.  If you really are what you have presented in the short time you've been on this board and I was your parent, I would have whooped your a-- into the witness protection program.  :nod:

Yes...My parents did so bad. Maybe if they beat me I could be doing better, but since they didnt I am just an A student at one of the more prestigious schools in the nation.


The above was sarcasm if your detector was off.
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: Que82 on January 08, 2011, 11:31:52 AM
Well Neymar, one thing is  for sure.  If you really are what you have presented in the short time you've been on this board and I was your parent, I would have whooped your a-- into the witness protection program.  :nod:

Yes...My parents did so bad. Maybe if they beat me I could be doing better, but since they didnt I am just an A student at one of the more prestigious schools in the nation.


The above was sarcasm if your detector was off.

Oh you still would have been an A student at one of the most  prestigious schools in the nation, you just would have been there with a sore a-- and some manners.  :lol:
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: FunCkMaster on January 09, 2011, 11:03:44 AM




Oh you still would have been an A student at one of the most  prestigious schools in the nation, you just would have been there with a sore a-- and some manners.  :lol:

 :lmao:
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: soflorattler on January 09, 2011, 01:59:20 PM
Well Neymar, one thing is  for sure.  If you really are what you have presented in the short time you've been on this board and I was your parent, I would have whooped your a-- into the witness protection program.  :nod:

Yes...My parents did so bad. Maybe if they beat me I could be doing better, but since they didnt I am just an A student at one of the more prestigious schools in the nation.


The above was sarcasm if your detector was off.

Oh you still would have been an A student at one of the most  prestigious schools in the nation, you just would have been there with a sore a-- and some manners.  :lol:

 :nod: :lol: :lol: :lol:
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: RamMan4Life on January 10, 2011, 06:28:14 PM
I do not have problem with the uncle. More parents and older relatives need to keep an eye on these kids and what they are doing.
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: Neymar on December 14, 2011, 03:29:46 PM
Hey yall......I thought spanking got kids on the right track?

Teen Who Was Spanked In Video For Being In Gang Found Dead

A teen who was videotaped being spanked by his uncle for boasting about gang ties on his Facebook page was found shot to death last week nearby his New Orleans home.

Michael Taylor, 16, was found shot to death shortly after 8:30 p.m. on Wednesday, Dec. 7. In a video uploaded in January, Taylor’s uncle spanked the teen after finding out about his gang ties.


http://newsone.com/nation/newsonestaff4/teen-who-was-spanked-by-uncle-for-being-in-gang-found-dead/ (http://newsone.com/nation/newsonestaff4/teen-who-was-spanked-by-uncle-for-being-in-gang-found-dead/)

Spanking solves nothing, and I am so sad I was right in this thread so long ago. Teach young people in your family about right from wrong by being an example. Show them what kind of people are good to hang around, and then when they grow up things will fall into place. Kids need influences badly, and striking them for getting it wrong is not the answer.

A man learns with his mind.
A beast learns from pain.
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: Que82 on December 14, 2011, 06:45:55 PM
Please tell me you have more than this in order to support your argument.  :shrug:
Title: Re: Uncle Whoops Nephew For Facebook Behavior...
Post by: RamMan4Life on December 15, 2011, 07:48:59 AM
A myriad of things could have led to this unfortunate event, so to assume that the discipline that his uncle chose to give him didn't work is, at best, laughable. Having been an investigator in a previous life and now dealing with youngsters, I know all to well what can happen to people when they are in the wrong place. Discipline begins at an early age and should be consistent. Even then, there is no guarantee that tragedy will not befall you. Let us mourn the death of another life by violent means instead of using it to prove an opinion about a weighty subject like discipline.