Ok, help me to understand why are so called successful black women the focus in this discussion on being single? You have successful people all over the world that are either happily single, miserably single, or don't give a damn one way or the other single. Why is there a need for a debate? You're just going to here the same old reasons why black women can't find a man. This has nothing to do with being successful because you can throw a minimum wage female in the mix and you still will get the same response about how men are dogs, broke, and on the down low.

On another note, I know a woman right now that if you look at her from the outside you would think she has it going on with two degrees, a decent personality, and very nice physical features. However, she has some serious mental health issues and I would be surprised to see any man settle down with that. People need to realize that success doesn't always correspond with marriage because some folks just aren't cut out mentally to live that kind of lifestyle. Some may think their ready, but in actuality they are not.